Dress codes at weddings – what does it really mean?

Being invited to a wedding is an honor – but often also the beginning of the question: What should I wear?
Wedding dress codes can feel like a science, especially if you're not used to older etiquette rules. At the same time, the dress code is a nice way to show respect for the bride and groom and their wishes.

Today, weddings are often more casual than they used to be. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable – but at the same time follow the guidelines stated on the invitation. Here we guide you through the most common dress codes and give tips on what they mean for both the bride and groom and their guests.

Traditionally, a slightly lighter dress code applies to morning weddings.

Groom: A jacket is the most classic, with grey striped trousers, a vest and a tie. An alternative is a dark blue or dark grey suit.
Bride: Often wear an elegant dress, either long or short. A hat is a good match for a shorter dress.
Guests: Ladies choose a shorter dress or suit, preferably with a hat. Gentlemen wear a dark suit or jacket if specified.

Afternoon wedding – after 3:00 PM

Once it's past three o'clock it becomes more formal.

Groom: Traditional tailcoat, uniform or festive version of folk costume.
Bride: A long white dress is classic, preferably complemented with gloves depending on the sleeve length.
Guests: Ladies choose a long evening dress or elegant folk costume. Gentlemen wear a tailcoat or equivalent.

Dress codes on the invitation

Tailcoat / Formal wear

The most formal attire.

Men: Tailcoat with white bow tie and white vest.
Women: Long evening dress (low neckline works well) and festive accessories. Long gloves go with off-shoulder dresses.
Alternative: Festive uniform or folk costume also works.

Jewelry that fits: Elegant diamond necklaces, classic pearl earrings, long earrings and sophisticated bracelets.

Tuxedo

Less formal than a tailcoat, but still solemn.
Men: Tuxedo, dark blue or black. In the summer, a white jacket with black trousers also works.
Women: Evening dress, short or long – but not as dressed up as with a tailcoat.

Jewelry that fits: Discreet but elegant jewelry such as earrings with stones, thin bracelets or a stylish necklace.

Dark suit

A common and appreciated dress code today.
Men: Dark blue, dark gray or black suit with white shirt and tie or bow tie.
Women: Elegant shorter dress, calf-length or sometimes long dress depending on the time of day.

Jewelry that fits: Smaller statement jewelry, such as short necklaces, discreet earrings and bracelets that complement the dress without taking over.

Jacket

The least formal dress code.
Men: Traditionally a dark suit, but today a lighter suit in the summer or a jacket with trousers is also accepted.
Women: Shorter dress, suit or elegant long trousers. A longer dress can also work if the bride and groom want a more dressed-up feel.

Jewelry that fits: Playful and personal jewelry, smaller statement earrings, colorful details or a charming necklace that stands out a little more.